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I guess I'm in a similar situation as the 1st writer, except that I want to move in together because a) I'm totally in love with him and want to spend the rest of our lives together b) he helps me out around my apartment more than my roommate does so I think he'll be a good roomy and c) we live in la jolla so it's really frikkin expensive so I'd rather get a 1 bedroom and share with him than a 2 bedroom and share with someone else.

But alas I do not have this choice as my parents would totally and completely freak the frick out, so we shall wait until after college.

also @jamba and vizslvr, sometimes I'm not into it and my bf wants some, he'll masturbate and I'll usually kiss him or something. I'm 20 and quite ok with watching, but I understand I might be a weirdo

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jambadreamer07

wrote on February 11 2010 @ 06:52 pm: [report]

@Camel027

This may be true for you now, but you have to remember that the relationship is still fairly new, and that you don't live together yet. I don't know how many hours per day you spend with your guy, but I'm guessing that it's less than it would be if you lived in the same room. That can change the dynamic of a relationship a little bit. I'm not guaranteeing that that same problem will occur for every couple that moves in together, but I mentioned it because undecided roommate is about my age, had also never lived with a bf, and I thought my experiences would be something she could relate to, or perhaps find useful in making up her mind.

I don't know, your relationship could be totally different in a year, so thinking about it now won't really do much for you when it comes time to make that decision. Just enjoy the fun you seem to be having now, and good luck smile

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sarahprotzman

wrote on February 11 2010 @ 07:05 pm: [report]

Too young, too young, too young.

There're always gonna be the “but it worked out for so-and-so" commenters, but seriously, I think anyone who cares about you (and isn't just saying what you want to hear) will be kind enough to tell you not to go this route yet.

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